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5 year developmental milestones

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There are some key physical and communication milestones you will expect your 5 year old to reach. These milestones should be treated as a rough guide, as each child is unique and will develop at their own pace. It is often unhelpful to compare a child to other children or their siblings.


Last reviewed: 1 November, 2023

At around 5 years old you can expect your child to be able to:

Physical

Read our information on hand skills

Communication, problem solving and behaviour

  • speak very clearly
  • know their name, address and age
  • like listening and telling stories
  • have a best friend
  • use their sense of humour
  • use more of their imagination
  • show more independence
  • recognise big and small items and be able to tell you this for example, the elephant is big
  • count up to 15 with few mistakes
  • explain how they feel with explanation. ‘I am happy because I got a sticker’ or ‘I am sad because I fell over’
  • play with a small group of friends alone
  • sit still and listen to a short story or play with an activity they like for 15 to 20 minutes
  • show worry if someone is sad or hurt
  • leave their parents to enter a new environment/place with little support

Read more about your child's communication

Encouraging development

Activities and games you can explore with your child:

  • plenty of outdoor activities
  • teaching your child to swim and ride a 2 wheeled bicycle
  • skipping and kicking a football
  • sewing kits
  • drawing and painting
  • helping with some home tasks such as washing up and watering plants
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Toddlers do not need lots of toys or devices to have fun or to encourage development. Toddlers have very active imaginations. Playing with old cardboard boxes or homemade playdough are great alternatives.

Possible development concerns

Sometimes development can be slower than you expect, or you may notice something different about your child. It's normal to feel worried but there is lots of support out there. 

Contact the health visiting team if you notice your child is:

  • not able to walk, run, climb, jump or use stairs confidently
  • not able to hop five times on one leg and stand on one leg for 5 seconds

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Who can help

If you have any questions or concerns about your child's development, a health professional in our team will be able to offer advice and support.

You can email ccs.bedsandlutonchildrenshealthhub@nhs.net

You can call 0300 555 0606

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